Hi, my names Elaine I have a disabled daughter who's 23 now I've cared for her all her life from the smallest needs to the biggest basically do everything for her feeding, cleaning, medication. I lost my husband 8 years ago so the last few years its literally just me and my daughter I do have two other children that help when they can but have busy life's and can no longer lift my daughter now I have a PA for like 8 hours a week. I've never really wanted to put my daughter into overnight care. However I am struggling im not getting any younger my backs bad from lifting her shes not the lightest to lift anymore as a 23 years old young women, I have hoists to be fair. Shes recently like over the last year become aggressive with myself and sometimes with my young grandchildren mainly shouting at them but she can be physical with me hitting out, im wondering if shes become as frustrated with life as I have or she sees realised her strength and wants to use it im not sure. I feel alittle lost at the minute I don't drive we spend a lot of time in together, I try to occupy with various activities but shes becoming agitated a lot of the time.

Were in Yorkshire Hull area ...

Any help ...